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Friday, December 7, 2012
The Execution of Lena Baker
Sunday, November 18, 2012
What were you thinking??
Memphis Radio host Thaddeus Matthews has been known for exhibiting recent crazy news to the public.He's also been known for exhibiting disturbing news to the public as well. This past week, he got in a great amount of trouble for exhibiting some very disturbing news that wasn't a good site to see at all. It was so unsightly,that he went to jail for it and was charged with child pornography.
Thaddeus put on the internet a picture of a toddler giving oral sex to a grown man. The reactions I saw to that were similar to mines,which was "WHAT THE...What kind of sick bastard does that to a child and what kind of sick bastard puts this piece of trash on the internet???" That sight was sooo horrific and disgusting. To think of the man who did that to that child just disgusts me.I mean who would do such a thing like that?
Everyone was furious with Thaddeus,because he posted the vulgar picture on a social site.When Thaddeus was asked why did he put that picture on the internet,he stated he was trying to see if anyone could identify the man that was in the picture so he can report them to the police. He aslo stated "It was on instagram first,hundreds of people had it!" Are you freaking serious?? What on earth would make you think putting a picture like that on an interet site so someone could identify the man in the picture would be ok? I mean for one,no one would be able recognize that man. I'm pretty sure no one would even want to recognize that man. And just because it was on Instagram doesn't mean you should put it on Facebook for everyone to see.
I understand he wanted to help the child by identifying the man who did that to it,but that was definitely not the way to do it. His heart was in the right place,but his mind most definitely wasn't. Honestly if he wanted to identify the man or the baby,he should've reported the picture to the police AS SOON as he got the picture. That would have helped alot more than putting the picture on the internet. Hopefully this experience taught him a lesson on exhibiting such disturbing news like that to the public though.
Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Adults
Don't you hate how adults act like children sometimes? Don't you hate when adults talk crazy to you and they expect you to do nothing about it? I know alot of people do,signally me. That really irritates me. I know alot of "adults" feel they can say or do anything to children and the children won't say or do anything back,well I'm not one of those kids.
I have been raised to always respect adults,but I've also always been brought up on the words "You've got to give respect to get respect." With that being said,I'm not one of those teens who just sit there and deal with adults attitudes and hostile behavior,especially if they aren't family. I've had plenty of confrontations with adults where they've tried to take advantage of their authority and act crazy towards me and believe me they got the shock of their lives when I got crazy with them too. I've even had to fight a few adults for trying to beat me up,that didn't work out too good for them. Then,majority of the time they try to use the excuse "I'm the adult and you're the kid,you're not grown."....sooo what,was that suppose to make me cry or something?? Just because i'm younger than you,doesn't mean that you can just treat me anyway. I don't mean to be disrespectful,but when I get mistreated I don't just sit there and take it.
I also hate how some adults act extremely immature. They tell us to grow up and act our age,but they act worse than us. I don't understand that. For instance,once I had a cousin named Tasha who went around gossiping to others about some of my other family members to cause conflict. Then,she tried to come over to me and tried to tell me about being mature and things. I gladly told her that she needs to grow up before she can tell anyone about being mature. I mean how are you going to be close to your fifties' acting like you're in middle school? I mean I've met kids a little younger than me who don't act like that. People need to act their age and get it together and I say that to not only adults but to young adults/teenagers also. I'm not trying to attack adults,i'm just simply saying that they have to set an example for us and the younger people and being immature and disrespectful is not the way to do it.
Sunday, September 30, 2012
Taking The Step Of Marriage
"Marriage is one of the greatest things that can happen in your life,but it's up to you to make that one of the greatest steps you take in life." My dad told me that once when I voiced to him that I want to get married one day and I couldn't have agreed with him more. Marriage is the holy matrimony between two individuals to have and to hold for richer or for poor,in sickness and in health,and for better or worse. With the right young lady I believe I can do all of those things in a marriage with. However at the age of 16,I don't believe i'm ready for marriage.
To begin with,marriage is a very big and mature step for anyone to take.I think I can take that step but not at this age. Right now,i'm just focusing on school,family,and my career and it's hard enough worrying about those three so the responsibilities of being a husband and being in a marriage would just add on a little more pressure. I still have some maturing to do before I try being married. Marriage takes compromise,patience,understanding and among other things. I'm still working on those things,because honestly with the way I am now,it just wouldnt't work out the way I planned it would.
Don't get me wrong,I'd love to have a tremendously long and healthy marriage one day. I'd love for my wife and I to share and build a love like no other. I mean who wouldn't desire to have someone to build a family with,to care for,to experience a variety of emotions with and etc. To have someone that you can connect with in a significant way and be able to do that for the rest of your life is truly amazing. I'd make sure that I have that special connection with my wife. I'd also make sure that I am very superb with taking on the responsibility of raising my children. In all,i'd love to be a terrific husband and trememdous father one day.
On the other hand,these days you don't too much see marriages that are truly happy. Most of the marriages i see are tumultuous and in the process of becoming divorced and only a few marriages I see are very loving and happy. Seeing those marriages makes me determined to make my marriage more and more amazing when I have mine. Also,I really don't find young women who are wife and marriage material. They're not being faithful,committed,mature and other qualities needed for marriage.Honestly majority of the young men and women my age are just looking for entertainment for what's in their pants anyway,so the thought of marriage would most likely scare them. They are just looking to be young,wild and free while they can.I actually can't blame them for that but hopefully one day they'll be ready and mature enough to take that big step towards marriage.
In conclusion,marriage is a great blessing,but it's a big step that takes maturity and time. I ,for one, am taking my time on making that step before I end up making a mistake. I want to make sure I've got my priorities straight and i'm at a point in my life where I can be in a committed marriage like I want to be. When I get into my early twenty's and have finished college,I believe i'd be ready to experience the joy of marriage. As that time approaches,I won't be trying to find the young lady I can live with,i'll be looking for the young lady I can't live without.
Monday, September 17, 2012
Controversy With The President Of Chick-Fil-A
As a child growing up,there were alot of familyrestaurants and fast food places to eat at. McDonalds,Ryan's,Burger King,China Inn,Picadilly's,Chick-Fil-A and plenty others were great places for families to enjoy great food. When I was growing up,there were nothing but great times spent at those places. Everybody loved those restaurants and fast food places and had no problems with them. However,now-a-days for one of those fast food places it's a different story.
The Chick-Fil-A president,Dan Cathy, stirred up some controversy when he stated his views on same sex marriage in an interview he did with the Baptist Press. He stated "When it comes to legalizing same-sex marriage,I think we are inviting God's judgment on our nation when we shake our fist at Him and say we know better than you as to what constitutes a marriage and I pray God's mercy on our generation that has such a prideful, arrogant attitude to think that we have the audacity to define what marriage is about." That made alot of Chick-Fil-A customers and non customers happy that he said that and a very large amount of people angry,a large amount of them were homosexuals. Cathy's statement on same-sex is really giving Chick-Fil-A bad press and bad business. In my opinion,Dan Cathy was seriously wrong for the statements he made about same-sex marriage. I mean,who is he to judge them and use God against them like that.
I think that Dan is courageous for putting his views out there like that,because of his religion. However,putting those views out there came with a territory of hurting alot of people that are homosexual. I understand that he is just using his freedom of speech to point out his opinion and I don't blame him for standing up for his opinion. However,i believe he could've just kept his opinion to hisself,because he is making it very uncomfortable for his LGBT customers to hang out,buy and enjoy their food there. As a businessman,he really should've known that that was going to start controversy. Now alot of homosexuals and transexuals are scared to even walk into Chick-Fil-A restaurants to buy food,because they're afraid they're going to get jumped or gay bashed. That's very sad to me. People are scared to enjoy their food now all because of one person's opinion. I mean wouldn't you want to be able to enjoy food from a great restaurant with no worries or fears that something bad will happen to you? I know I would. Honestly,I just believe Dan Cathy should've kept his opinion to hisself.
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Helping Others With Suicidal Problems
Suicide,it's a very touchy and controversial subject. Some people are sensitive to that subject and some have a very negative attitude about it. I used to be both sensitive and negative about that subject. I felt bad for the people who thought about it or did it,but at the same time I felt that they could've just talked to somebody or worked out their issues before they just gave up. All of that has changed soon enough. I started to want to help them through it and recent experience has made me want to help them more.
In late January of this year,I befriended a young man by the name of Kelsey Brown. He was funny,smart,cool,a music-lover,crazy, and creative;in fact,we had alot of similarities. He always had a way with words and definitely a way with the ladies. He also could keep a whole room full of people laughing. As far as i knew Kelsey was one of the coolest guys i ever met with no worries....or so I thought.
During the summer,Kelsey and I started talking everyday and we ended up getting as close as brothers. In between that time, I got to know the real Kelsey who thought of himself to be worthless,very unattractive,not loved nor cared for and just the complete opposite of what I or anyone else thought that was good about him. He had a troubled life with painful childhood memories that included being severely beaten by two uncles,being jumped by a whole neighborhood, being put in foster homes at age 13 by his family and etc. and because of that,it caused him to be suicidal. I was one of the few people who knew about it and also one of the few to help him with that. I talked him out of ending his life a few times and it helped and i also tried to persuade him to see a counselor for professional help,but unfortunately his pride wouldn't let him do it.
As much as I talked him out of committing suicide and trying to help him get over his childhood,it didn't help as much as I thought it would. On July 31, I believe Kelsey decided that he was tired of putting up a front and letting the painful memories of the past and present take an emotional toll on him;so instead of coming to me for help and or me talking him out of it,kelsey committed suicide. It left me in a state of depression,sadness and frustration. It was hard for me to accept that my brother was gone just like that and i couldn't do anything about it. It also depressed me,because I only knew him for five and a half months and i lost him to suicide. That was the saddest last week of summer I EVER had.
That whole experience made me want to speak out against suicide more and more. It made me want to talk to every individual who was suicidal or had thoughts about it. Most of the time,all you hear people say is "Why would you do that?", "You do realize your going to hell for that right?", "You're so weak and stupid for trying give up like that". I want to ask those people what good is that going to do by telling people who are like or worse than how Kelsey was that type of stuff. We should be trying to help them with their issues instead of bringing them down because of them.
I've decided to help others with their suicidal problems more than i already have. As a person who has helped others with it,I feel that I need to speak out to others about it. Although I wasn't able to save Kelsey from his suicidal ways,I still feel encouraged to keep helping those with the same problems he had. So, I believe before anyone goes judging a person who has suicidal problems,they should try to get to know why they're that way and help them through it. Besides,you could end up saving a life.


